Changing the status-quo had been the theme of the week that has passed by. Though there have been many such occurrences in the last seven days, some stood out and have had a bigger impact than others. Though different from each other in many ways, one common message that each of those situations had was to believe in oneself and take charge.
My conviction that life does not hold back what it wants you to experience, got enough strength from these multiple experiences. Each of these powered my belief that whole life creates for itself. It reaffirmed to me that it is in this endeavour to create that we direct our lives to how they are lived.
Two experiences that made a larger impression on me had me involved in one of those, and the other one was about a client of mine, who then turned into a friend, and is today creating a whole new life for himself. Being true to my intention of taking charge, I would like to mention first the one wherein I was involved.
This one particular thing that I allowed to hold me back for almost a couple of years now, for no obvious reason, was brought to an end by me yesterday. It was my inhibition about a place which I had never visited but had somehow always been the reason for some kind of uneasiness whenever it became a part of any situation. And very unlike me, I was allowing that to exist in my reality without having done something about it. This inaction of mine had allowed something outside of me to control what happens inside of me for a good twenty months or so.
But then for how long I would have been able to deny the truth of my core. And eventually, I took charge and allowed my core value of love and freedom to enable me to free myself from this and bring love to that same place which was allowed to be the reason for something exactly opposite.
Now that I look back, I understand that what I did yesterday was to do nothing. In fact, what I was doing before that was quite a lot of doing. Doing which was not in sync with my being. Actions that were contrary to my core that is, love and freedom. And when I allowed myself to NOT DO anything which was not my true self, I was able to break this status quo, and that freedom allowed me to create love in the surroundings.
Surprisingly even the second situation was making its impact simultaneously. Though a lot had been happening in there for the last two weeks, it was yesterday while I was driving down to that same place, when I got on a call with someone with whom this second situation is concerned.
This client turned friend, who in his words, experienced metamorphosis shared with me a lot many things that were happening around him since he has started acknowledging his true self. Everything that he shared was so impactful and liberating that I immersed myself in the magic of life being created while enjoying the drive through the serene surroundings.
Though his talks had a lot to do about what he was doing to make all those changes come to effect, I could sense that it was only about acknowledging one’s core self. It just a change in this way of living, that made all other actions so very spontaneous and easy, that it all eventually led to a change in the status quo. The sense of surprise in his words did not surprise me a bit. And it was only because I could see that it was now that life was creating itself.
Both these situations had a common factor, and that was to stop fighting with what your core is. Things may need action or inaction to change, but one thing which makes it all very smooth and effortless is the acknowledgement of our true self.
An honest ‘HELLO’ to one’s core, enables our lives to say a ‘GOODBYE’ to all that which does not serve them. I wish more and more power to all of us, to allow our lives to create for themselves, what they truly deserve.
Love to all! Stay Safe!
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